Britney Spears losing custody of her two sons to her former husband Kevin Federline is not all that shocking. Just watch entertainment shows and read tabloid accounts of her seemingly endless desire to act like an idiot. But the sad fact of the matter is that there are millions of idiots raising children in America. As a portrait photographer I see a lot of people with kids I wouldn’t trust to watch a goldfish for the weekend. But they are not gazillionaires and no one is jumping up and down demanding they become better parents. Well, maybe Dr Phil is…